Well, it's likely that things will change in new homes as well.
Until then, if you scroll down to the second product here
http://www.centralite.com/index.php/products/new-products-for-2015 companies are making expensive "smart" switches that goes on top of your "dumb" switch. This way you can spend a bit more money to control your "smart" bulbs

In all seriousness though, things are far from ideal today due to how we're 1. used to interact with lights and 2. how well some of this stuff works or doesn't work.
I can see smart bulbs being handy in a restaurant where you have central control of all the lights and can remove the light switches which I've seen on more than one occasion being switched off by a customer by accident.
It's also handy to be able to control lights outside of your home, say in your garden, without having to run a switch to somewhere.
But yes, being able to control all your lights in your home in a sensible way is most likely still some years away, if for no other reason, simply due to the cost.